A part of self care means [for me] occasionally taking time off to go be near people without necessarily interacting with them; I call this my Peopling Time and is a way in which I honor the Extraverted aspect of my Introverted personality. Yesterday was such a day for me and included - besides getting a 'purchase points' latte - going over to Petsmart to check out the various animals there [mostly the cats, but occasionally birds or rodents].
This cutie was listed as a Short-haired Syrian Hamster [2 year lifespan] and was so curious towards me, even coming across her enclosure to interact with me. As you can see by the pictures, she is also an IMP and attempted to climb out of the back of her display cage, lol.
Yes, I was tempted.
And no, I did not purchase her and all of the other things which would be needed to give her a healthy and happy little life. She wasn't right for me... but she will be for someone else.
That's the beauty of Me Days; and the little discoveries and sweet moments of joy which can occur during them.
It was not wasted time.
It was not wasted gas.
It was not wasted money.
I WAS moments to slow down, look at 'pretties', enjoy the smell and taste of fall flavors [it IS - after all - Pumpkin Spice season, lol], and to remember the childlike joys of going out somewhere just for the sake of DISCOVERING the adventures which a day could bring.
It is learning how to LIVE again!
Remember - Self Care is not wasted time or money.
And you know, sometimes it is necessary in order to live a balanced life.
Go have a great day!
Rachel
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